Words to remember
I was talking with Lynn yesterday, she’s a good friend of mine who’s a psychologist and we were discussing a mutual friend of ours who always seems to be in one dilemma after another. I started out saying how sad it made me feel when I thought about all her problems and Lynn told me I was foolish. I was a bit taken aback at first because I thought she was cold and heartless and then she said something I hope I always remember — these 17 words she told me…
“For things to change, you must get a picture of what you want them to change to.”
I let the words sink in for a few minutes and then realized how right she was. Our friend focuses all the time on what has happened to her, she’s always a victim because she can only see herself as a victim. So I thought about those 17 words in the context of dating and relationships and I think she might be on to something there too. If you see yourself as single and dateless, why not try changing your focus. See yourself as someone desirable who hasn’t found the right one.. yet!
That’s some great advice. All to often people are prone to repeat the past.
In fact there are a lot of things not right with the world today, and not just with the world of business and finance, and the more people wake up to this fact, the better it is for the world. It’s like the squeeze is also being put around internet marketers, around the little guy, etc….
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