Women’s Fantasies

I’m not sure how big the group of women was that was surveyed to give their favorite fantasies, but I suspect they are very typical. I’ve seen quite a few of these mentioned in the SexyAds forums a time or two!
Women discussing fantasies
* Sex between student and teacher
* Sex in public or in a public place
* Sex with a multitude of partners
* Sex in a place where a person might be caught in the act
* Having sex outdoors
* Sex, pretending you are a prostitute
* Acting as if inexperienced sexually or acting as a virgin
* Having sex with someone considered inappropriate such as a nun or a priest
* Having sex with a famous person or fictional character
* Trying sexual positions or approaches a person may not be practicing in real life
* Wearing the clothing of the opposite sex or being forced to wear this clothing.

I love that my sexual fantasies are not the same as my sexual reality. I can fantasize about sex with any number of men without committing adultery in my heart. I can imagine myself with .. well, best leave that for another article, ok?

Most research on sexual fantasies points to the fact that a healthy sexual fantasy life goes hand in hand with a healthy overall sex life. People who have sexual fantasies are more likely to be sexually satisfied, and they even have more sex. So if you have fantasies, you’re on the right track!

Occasionally some people feel bad or guilty about having fantasies that don’t include their spouse. That’s crap! The only time a fantasy can cause a problem is if your partner wants to act one out and it’s something that you don’t want to do. My advice is to say no. You’ll hate it and your partner will resent it so you won’t get any brownie points for “giving in.”

I think there’s nothing better than having a quiet cuddle and talking about fantasies. I ALWAYS get in the mood. How about sharing yours?

12 Comments so far

  1. self defense blog on March 10th, 2010

    Wow, and I thought it was only us guys thinking like that…

  2. Will on March 10th, 2010

    It looks like women have similiar fantasies to men!

  3. Busrejser on March 10th, 2010

    hey hi, Nevertheless, female fantasies are different from male ones in several major ways. Men tend to fantasize about a greater number of sexual partners, and many men like to “swap” their imagined partners, while women tend to “stay” with one specific person during their fantasy. Thanks to this amazing article, i got the chance to psot my comment.

  4. Very House Adorn on March 11th, 2010

    It looks like women have similiar fantasies to men!

    Agree with this!

  5. Rina on March 17th, 2010

    Sex between student and teacher LOL i love it!!

  6. teacher on March 19th, 2010

    Well i agree with you. But do women really have as many fantasies as men? I am not sure but I think they do.

  7. Detox on March 20th, 2010

    Most research on sexual fantasies points to the fact that a healthy sexual fantasy life goes hand in hand with a healthy overall sex life. People who have sexual fantasies are more likely to be sexually satisfied, and they even have more sex.

  8. Cielo of Brown Pinay on March 22nd, 2010

    hmmmm this post is interesting hehehhehe

  9. FeelingFlirty on March 26th, 2010

    People with fantasies have imagination and that makes them interesting in every part of their lives, not just in bed.

  10. FeelingFlirty on March 26th, 2010

    Absolutely we do! :)

  11. Dan on April 8th, 2010

    I love blogs like this!

  12. Love Distance on April 24th, 2010

    i like this love blog a lot, i will bookmark it now.
    thanks a lot ;)

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