What do you do with a bad kisser?
I suppose everyone is different in what sort of kisser they’re looking for but that doesn’t matter, if the kisser you’ve got is missing the mark on what trips your trigger, what do you do?
For me the wet kisser turns me off. He comes at me with his lips parted and I swear he slobbered on them first so my entire upper lip is wet. Gross! I’ve had a few men kiss me that way and I can’t wait for it to end.
Friends of mine were discussing this when we got together for coffee yesterday. I’m not alone in wanting a good kisser but is there an easy way to retrain one?
Yes, it’s called honesty.
Nobody is a shitty kisser on purpose. They all learned the same way we did. We kissed our wrists, didn’t we? Unfortunately our wrists didn’t kiss back and therein lies the problem. So we tell them how we would like to be kissed. We do risk them saying that they like kisses like they give and would like to get them in return. If that happens, it’s back to the online dating site for you.
I suspect what you’ll get is thanks for agreeing for more practice. If you practice until you get kissed in a way that makes you ache for more, it’s definitely a win-win situation for you and for your relationship with the formerly bad kisser.
Hi! Yes, you’re right practise makes perfect. It is vital to improving and maintaining the standard of kissing. As for moisture content of a kiss it depends on the passion level. The higher the passion the wetter the kiss. The lower the passion the dryer the kiss. If all else fails you can send them away for retraining. On a orange of course.
I just wrote about this too! Good kissing is so important especially when you first start dating. I love the idea of training on an orange. I’ll have to remember that.