Videochat FUNdamentals

tips on videochat etiquette

Videochat can be a whole lot of fun and people tell us every week how much they enjoyed themselves. Also, we see comments going back and forth where someone is saying how much fun they had last night. A check or two of the cams and some people are always G-rated and some, well, you’ll just have to see for yourself how sexy they can be on cam.

As the Internet has grown over the past 13 years we’ve been in business, a certain videochat etiquette has emerged — created and developed by the users themselves. There are a couple of things to remember when chatting via videocams with a group of people.

Don’t be a leghumper.

I don’t like to be sexist but we don’t have any problems with women going on and on asking a man to take off his clothes or show this bit or that bit. Why?  Because most women don’t ask.  They assume men come from the factory with all the mod cons.

The women who cam have been mentioning how annoying it is when men try to play director. These women are real people and they aren’t working in chat for a living. They’re on cam to enjoy themselves because they love feeling sexy and this is one outlet for sexual expression. Don’t ruin it for everyone by playing director and causing the women to stop videochatting.

No means no.

We’ve had a couple of people write to us at SexyAds.com because this woman or that woman wouldn’t let them view their cam. Tough. That’s how life is. If life were perfect we’d all be millionaires and drive around in fancy cars. How do you get to watch their cams? Be friendly. That makes you appear trustworthy. Begging is never attractive and it really pisses off the rest of the people in the chatroom when someone goes on and on and on begging to view a cam.

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4 Comments so far

  1. lankapo on April 16th, 2010

    yup love web cam chat.
    when i was young, will do anything to get a girl open her webcam :)

    nowdays, ladies want to see more from guys hehe

  2. Alexander Wang Cheap on April 17th, 2010

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  3. Wilmaryad on April 19th, 2010

    I, recently, discovered Cam4 and oh my God!

    While there are quite a few women getting their freak on, men expectedly outdo them. No pun intended.

    Something about flaunting their dead rabbits on cam … and this is coming from a gay guy. It saddens me to see how sexed-up men, in general, are.

    I say a place and a time for everything.

  4. Hill Stations India on May 21st, 2010

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