Setting & Achieving Goals

Ever notice that many of us say things like , “I wish I could speak French,” or “I’d love to learn to fly a plane?” Then we meet someone who’s already done it and we think, why them and not me?

I’ll tell you why, it’s because they set goals for their lives and went about doing all the necessary steps to make it happen. The rest of us think it would be good but never get off the chair and say, “OK, my plan for getting -blah- is this…”

In our line of work we get mail from men and women every day who want to blame us because they aren’t in a happy relationship. I just want to stand in front of them and look them in the eye and explain that we’re a dating site, not a procurement agency. You get out of it what you put into it. A one line ad that says “I have a really big dick and can lick you all night,” no photo and no other effort on their part will always end up less than 2nd best. This is where the goal setting comes in.

We’ve found that everyone who comes to us with a real goal to meet someone special, usually does. They do all the things necessary to make it happen and most importantly, they expect it to happen. The tire kickers, the is the grass greener on your side people and the games players rarely end up in a good situation and I’m convinced it’s because they had no real intention in the first place.