Rules for breaking up
We’re way past the year 2000 but does that mean that manners and respect are out the window? Is the anonymity of the Internet seeping into all aspects of our lives?
The reason I say this is because of an email I received this week from a woman who’d met a lovely guy through SexyAds and they’d been dating 1-2 times a week for a few months. She’d met his parents and his friends and most importantly for me, they’d been intimate on many occasions. It wasn’t a casual friendship. She went out of town on business for 3 days and came back and called him and he wasn’t at home. Ok, people go out and things come up and she expected to hear from him the following day. No call. She left a message on his answering machine. No call.
She never heard from him again.
He didn’t have the balls to say the relationship wasn’t working for him and he wanted to move on, so he just dropped off the planet. So she’s sitting back wondering if there was something she said, something she did or a past love had come back or he found someone new — she wanted closure and asked for my advice. It was simple for me to give.
“Put the bastard behind you and start answering emails from men who will be nice to you.”
This woman is university educated, has a great job and she’s good looking from the photo on her profile. She doesn’t need to feel second class because this guy didn’t have any class at all.
Would you end a relationship by disappearing? Of course you wouldn’t, but some are and it’s not good enough.
That guy is a psycho. I have no doubt about that.
There must have some things in the man’s mind. he must have seen something or understood anything for doing this.
what I believe is there must have some reason’s for anything.
***From FeelingFlirty — I disagree. I think that some men have difficulty with confrontation so they ignore the situation. Out of sight, out of mind.
She’s better off but. If you don’t have the balls to face someone and end it then he is not much of a man and I say good riddance
the guy is a jerk…! she can find another guy who is much2 better! just be patient and dont look desperate….thats all..
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