Put some effort into a personal ad

A friend wrote to me with this and I think it’s just great.

I am new to on-line dating but after just a short time realized it isn’t much different from the old ways of meeting the opposite sex. You have to be willing to make the first move and learn that not everyone will respond positively and except it. Remember the days of going to bars or clubs and drinking until you had the nerve to go for it? It is the same here but the difference is the rejection is less painful! However you only get back from it what you put in… meaning if you send a wink to that special someone expect if she/he is all that special 100’s have done the same! My point is that if we are looking for success on-line we need to put time into that special message and well guys that just isn’t something we are all that good at. If we have to write a novel to get a date or just get laid we would rather masterbate and call it all good. Writing sincere messages for men is like lifting the seat… we are fine with it down as long as it isn’t preventing us from getting laid!

For women it is different. They love to spend time reading and searching for that special one. They are far better at this than we are. For them this is foreplay and since they actually enjoy it expect to invest time on it. They would enjoy knowing about the first kiss in advance, what men are worth talking to before we even think of approaching them and most importantly have us answer a few select questions without meeting us at all.

Guys for your benefit think of it this way… We all hate picking out a special card for a birthday, holiday etc. but didn’t it always get you a call back or maybe a hug? If you can not think of anything to say on here go buy a few cards at the local store because as far as I am aware it is not against the rules of the internet to copy a few quotes from time to time.

Stop fishing without bait and if any women read this well what bait would you like us to start using?