If you’ve been thinking of ways to make your lover feel special so you’ll get more sex, pick one of these and try it out! Can’t hurt and you never know when you’ll hit the big one!

1. Kiss the inside of your partners hand

2. Leave a love note for your partner to find.

3. Mark designated Loving Days on your calendar.

4. Arrange for take-out and have an indoor picnic.

5. Feed each other.

6. Wash your partners car and leave post-it notes with loving messages for them to find.

7. Frame a favorite picture of the two of you and place it next to your bed.

8. Share a bottle of wine or champagne.

9. Send loving messages on your partners pager or cell phone.

10. Leave a romantic message on your partners answering machine.

11. Slow dance.

12. Hold hands.

13. Go star-gazing together.

14. Dedicate a love song on the radio.

15. Cook a meal together.

16. Blow a kiss.

17. Watch T.V. together in the glow of candlelight.

18. Meet your partner for lunch.

19. Plan a surprise date.

20. Kiss passionately often.

Can men and women just be friends for a lifetime? Unless one or both of them are gay, I believe the answer is no. And even in the case of one friend being gay, there can still be sexual tension. However, that’s not the point here.

Men, (most men that is) are interested in having a sexual relationship with 99% of the women they meet over a lifetime. This is not a joke. Men have told me this for years and I’m old enough for those years to count!

Men think about sex every 7 seconds throughout the day.

Men also have no control over who they find attractive, dont be fooled by religious figures that think this can be controlled. It is simply a natural thing in men.

Given the above truth about what men are thinking about during every waking hour, it should not be a surprise that a man will sleep with any of his female friends, even if he does not desire a full blown relationship with them. If the mood is right and the female friend is willing I will guarantee action will take place.

I’ve always said if you put a man and a woman together, nature takes over.

Additionally, just because you have had sex doesnt mean you cant also be friends. Yes, I know this complicates things, but men will happily be friends and have sex on ocassion. Why women are so anti-friends with benefits is beyond me, but at the same time there should never be any pressure to be FWB. Sometimes a good fucking can help you get to know someone better than you would as just friends. I recommend giving it a try if you have that urge inside. Dont wait for your friend to find someone better to regret taking that step further.

Anyone who has broken up with someone they loved knows that in many cases you will still think about that person for a long time after you make the split. Sometimes you will think of the good times you had and if you made the right choice by going separate ways. In my experience breaking up has always been a blessing. I dont usually recognize that right away while Im still in the mourning phase of the breakup, but with time I realize that the split happened for a reason and what would prevent it from happening again should we get back together at some point.

If you were to sit down and take an inventory of the things that cause your breakup you would realize that getting back together would just bring back those old troubling scenarios. I know there were some good times you can point to, but good times can be had with someone new, however difficult it may be to envision that when youre single again after being with someone for so long.

Many of these so called relationship experts will emphasize the need to try and work out issues with your mate. While that is partially true, chances are slim they wont rise to the surface at some point in the future.

There are over six billion people in the world, thus giving single people no good reason to settle down with someone they have had issues with in the past. Every minute we spend remembering the old times with someone who treated us poorly is a minute wasted. Although I confess to doing a lot of that same thinking myself, I have learned that its very counterproductive to moving on and meeting someone new to share your life with.

My experience has led me to believe that when things go wrong they go wrong for a darn good reason. When I have tried to rekindle the flame things usually get stale very fast. I highly recommend giving getting back with your ex a second thought before you end up going back to a time in your life that you once had to wiggle out of and now must wiggle out of once again.

I know, you’re thinking that to romance a man you just need to show up naked, but I think you might be wrong. So often we hear that the man should be the romantic one, and maybe 50 years ago this would have been so but this is 2008, and men like to be spoiled too. Think back to when you first met. The first dates, wining an dining, making an effort to look your best, breakfast in bed, long weekends having frantic sex. Dont you wish it was the same? Well I bet your partner also does. Instead of waiting for him to make the first move (after all we know how slow men are in the romantic take-up department. No offense guys) you take the lead and add a bit of romance into your relationship.

Show off your romantic side.

1. Pick up the phone: Give him a ring while he is at the office just to let him know that you are thinking of him. Or if you are confident with phone sex tell him what you are going to do to him once he gets home and in turn what you would like him to do to you.

2. Fill the stocking: Men love sexy lingerie just as much as women if not more. Let him know how much you want him by getting out your best panties, team them with a pair of fishnets, stilettos and seduce him tonight.

3. Feed his heart: You know the old saying the way to a mans heart is through his stomach! Well you better believe it because it works every time. Get out the best dinner set set the table with candles, put on some soft music and prepare his favorite meal. You wont even need to think of dessert because this is where he will become romantic and wisk you of to the bedroom.

4. Flirt: When was the last time you actually flirted with your partner? Go out in public (to dinner, to a party or nightclub) and try it. It will boost both your egos bring back those old feelings of lust for one an other. Think like a single person and see what happens

5. Bedroom boudoir: Set the mood in your bedroom. Clear out all the clutter, change the bed linen (bring in some silk sheets perhaps) and fill the room with scented candles. Stand a bottle of your favorite bubbly in some ice, lay your sexiest lingerie on the bed and keep a box of his favorite chocolates near by. This is also an inexpensive way to give your bedroom a new look.

6. Use toys: If you want to add some spice to your love making then what better way then to introduce some props. We are not talking about 12? dildos (unless you want to that is) it can be something as small as a silk scarf or as daring as vibrators. Your man will need never be asked to make an effort again.

7. Watch a flick: Rent a romantic movie, order a take away, get out a bottle of your favorite wine, take the phone of the hook turn out the lights and snuggle into each other on the sofa in front of the TV. The romantic flick will soon have the two of you in the mood for love.

8. Love letters: Leave him little notes in his pocket, on his pillow, next to his mother any where that he will find them that will give him a nice surprise.

9. Kiss.. him all of his body slowly

10. 3 little words: Tell him that you love him at least once a day. This will keep the love there even if you havent always got time to express it, those 3 little words is all that you need.