Men, are you guilty of these sexual mistakes?

Any of these mistakes can keep your partner from wanting sex as frequently as you do. Take a tip from me and be SURE you aren’t guilty of any of these because women feel strongly about all of these topics.

If you want to be more stud then dud, listen up. A true stud pleases a woman and has her coming back for more. A dud thinks he is pleasing his woman, but she’s never quite as hot for him as she was that first time. Your actions could very well be the reason that she wont return your phone calls or emails.

Really Bad Mistakes

1. Going Too Long. Some men are so concerned about premature ejaculation and the need to show that they can last forever that they go to the other extreme. Their lovemaking lasts too long, almost a sexual marathon. This can be some times expressed in wanting to exhaust a woman to the point of fatigue. Remember, you don’t have to fuck her so dry you feel like she’s going to catch fire.

Make sure you check with your partner to make sure she is up for a marathon session. Going too long with some women can cause pain. This will be a huge turn off and she won’t be as anxious to have what feels like week long sex when she only wants a quickie.

2. Undressing first. Allow her to do a nice strip tease for you or slowly, erotically remove her clothing one piece at a time - kissing every part that you uncover. Don’t take your pants off first. Nothing changes the mood for most women than the sight of a man in his underwear and socks. It takes women longer to get their motor going so the longer you extend foreplay and stay dressed the more ready and wet she’ll be by the time you start your strip show.

3. Be Clean. Take a quick shower before you have sex. A really important issue is how you care for your hands. You don’t have to get a manicure, but at least use some lotion so you won’t hurt the delicate tissue when you insert fingers into her vagina. Keep your nails trimmed too because long or sharp nails can hurt.

4. Too Rough. Most women want a masculine, sexy man who is in control in bed, but they do not want a brute. Being too aggressive can be a turn off and turn her desire for you into fear. Let your passion flow, but don’t force it. Forget the movie scenes where they show passion as ripping clothes off and throwing her on the bed. Not only will you not hear from this woman again, but you may receive a bill for an expensive blouse.

If you have made it to first base with a woman, but then she’s not as eager to see you again, recheck this list!