Ladies of Negotiable Affection
That’s right - prostitutes, sex workers, call girls or any number of other names you might have. Ever been with one? Ever talked with one? While I dont normally run in to women engaged in sex for money, I did have a chance recently to talk for quite a while to a woman who wanted to advertise on our site. We don’t sell advertising space at the moment but I took the opportunity to ask a few questions. She was more than happy to oblige.
Me: As you know I own SexyAds.com and we get sex workers who create memberships here all the time to try to get new customers. Have you tried that at our site or other dating sites?
Sarah: Yes, it’s how many of us keep growing our client list. We join dating sites and write to men (and sometimes couples) and then once we have made friends I tell them that I do this work professionally. Most of the time - and I do mean MOST OF THE TIME, they end up meeting me. I’ve been kicked off SexyAds about 50 times though! You people really don’t like us.
Me: It’s not that we don’t like you or don’t approve of what you’re doing, it’s that we get complaints from our members who say they aren’t looking for a part-time paid lover and it’s up to us to keep the site free of commercialism. So, what’s an average cost for your time?
Sarah: You get right to the point, don’t you? It all depends on what the customer/client wants. Straight missionary that lasts only til he orgasms is $100 or less. That doesn’t get him much time with me. If he wants something other than that, the price goes up.
Me: Aren’t you fearful for your safety?
Sarah: All the time but where could I go to get a job with my education and experience where I could make more than $100,000 a year?
Me: How long do you think you can continue to work like this?
Sarah: I won’t always want to work the hours I’m working now but I have an acquaintance who is still turning tricks at 73 and her customers adore her. She’s done this most of her life and she’s socked most of the money away. She’s loaded but she loves what she does. She says she provides a real service for men who don’t get any or enough sexual intimacy or pleasure.
Me: Do you have a husband or boyfriend? Children?
Sarah: No, I’m not married and I don’t have children but I do have a boyfriend. Some days he doesn’t mind what I do and other days it really bothers me. If we can’t get that sorted out, then we will both go our separate ways. I’m not going to stop working because he feels insecure.
Me: What’s a sex act that you’ll perform but don’t enjoy?
Sarah: I’m pretty kinky, I’ll admit that, and there’s not much that I don’t enjoy but I get nothing out of being pissed on.
Me: Ok, you’ve got me there, that’s something I’ve never tried nor have I had any desire to try. Thanks for talking!
