Is adult dating bad?
No, it’s not. The people who think that adult dating is bad forget that sex is a part of every healthy, successful relationship. I don’t know of a relationship that doesn’t at least start with a good sex life. Sure, sex is not the most important element of a good relationship but I cannot imagine not wanting it included in a relationship I’m involved in.
I have never advocated sex with strangers or having sex without trust or love or even before marriage. That’s entirely up to the two people involved. I also don’t agree with having affairs. I think honesty should be considered and if you’re unhappy in a relationship or not getting what you need emotionally or physically, then you should try to work it out and if it doesn’t work, then you mutually agree to split and try again with someone new. These are my personal beliefs. I don’t push my beliefs on anyone but I’m entitled to my own.
Am I weird? Maybe, but I have one chance to go through life and I like feeling loved. I like being touched. I like being intimate with my husband. I’m old, I accept that, but I’m not dead, nor do I plan to quit enjoying ourselves until I check out of planet Earth.
I think it’s good that people have a choice on where to meet people. There are some people where the mere mention of sex or sexuality sends them into that forbidden zone in their heads. I can live with that but what I have trouble accepting is that the rest of us who are comfortable with our own sexuality should live our lives based upon what someone else says is wrong.
Nobody would look at people in Sweden or Norway and say that they are perverts or worse, but they are very comfortable inside their own bodies. The idea that nudity is wrong is beyond most everyone’s belief. Same with the Maori in New Zealand. Many people still bathe together because it’s what they’ve always done. So should we tell them that they’re wrong? Probably not. They’d tell us that we’re the ones with the problem.
I agree, a healthy relationship will not work without a good sexlife, at least not for a longer period.
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It is very interesting to learn about where sexuality fits into our world through a females eyes. I think that you are right, it is not healthy to deny yourself sexual contact the studies that I have read show people that are ashamed of their bodies to the point of refusing to have sex usually end up with depression and other phycological side effects. Anyway good post and excellent diagnosis of sexuality in our culture.
You are very open minded and that is a positive trait. Just like you, I never advocate sex with strangers of having sex without trust or love. That is one very important element in a physical contact.
I agree with you that sex is not the most important thing in a relationship but that a good sex life of part of every happy healthy long term relationship. It’s that underlying attraction (or chemistry) that is the foundation for everything else that the relationship evolves into over time.
Those damn kids and their sex drugs and rock and roll.
Ha!! LOL don’t be silly! Dating is never bad unless the other (or both) are married!
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i like this post you have here… really..
Dating isn’t bad if both are married, some really need lots of sex and still love their own partner.
There might be different opinions about this sensitive topic. Many may avoid talking about this. But personally I don’t see anything wrong in adult dating. It helps to fight with loneliness singles feel at the growing age.
I truly agree with you. A relationship is not just all about sex its also about on emotion. As what I’ve noticed people nowadays are more opt in having relationship to have sex rather than having relationship because of love. It was really quite frustrating that people are more used in “MAKING LOVE OUT FROM LUST” than “MAKING LOVE BECAUSE OF LOVE”
Interesting post. Nobody without sex would not be able to live. When we are happy-sex even us happier, when we are sad-sex make happy us, when we are bored-sex us entertainment, when we are tired-sex refresh us.
adult dating isnt bad..like me and you..people has their rights to get happy.