Flirting online

flirting onlineWe all know how to flirt in person. There are those looks across a crowded room, extended eye contact, that shy smile, licking the lips.. you all know you’re guilty of nearly all of those at one time in your life. We’ve all been flirting since we were young. Now everyone is looking for love online and some people can’t get the hang of flirting purely by text.

How do you flirt online?

Remember when you were a kid and there was always a boy teasing one of the girls by pulling her ponytail or braids? He was always paying attention to her in one fashion or another and online flirting is done the same way.

When you email someone new, compliment him or her on a photo, profile or ad. If he’s got a great butt, tell him so. If she looks great in those black pants, let her know. Maybe there’s a wild sparkle in their eyes or they’ve caught a big fish - everyone likes to be noticed and complimented.

If you’re in a chatroom, don’t try to keep up with ALL the conversations because there can be up to 50 going on at one time. Stake out one woman and comment on what she’s talking about, even if she’s in a conversation with others. Join right in. If you’re new, introduce yourself and then comment to what they’re saying and they’ll get to know you and before you know it, you’ll be talking privately and you can start those compliments flowing.

Remember that paying attention doesn’t mean stalking - if someone doesn’t seem interested - choose another target. You’ll be wasting your time going after someone who’s not interested. You won’t get anywhere and they’ll be pissed off.

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9 Comments so far

  1. Italian cooking on September 6th, 2008

    Wow. What a nice post!!! Thanks for the tutorial. I never tried this before. But your suggestions encourages me. I just gonna do it right now. Thanks for sharing this in your post with us. Waiting for your next post like this.

  2. bluehost on September 7th, 2008

    Amusing,I agree with your all opinions given by you in your post “how to fit a person”.I like your way of writing. Really smart.Thanks for sharing this in your post with us.Waiting for your next post like this.

  3. lankapo on September 9th, 2008

    I want to add some more :)
    Make sure your partner is above 16

    Be honest

    Impress her/him

    Be a good listener

  4. grumpus on September 10th, 2008

    I hope this guy is describing his relaxed fit jeans to whoever he’s online with…score fer sure!

  5. Webspy on September 21st, 2008

    Flirting online is easier said than done I think that it is something that can take time mastering because when your online two things are taken out of contention and that is your body language and tone. Mainly it is the look that is taken away.

    I think the best way is to be witty and smart witty not wannabe witty and also some double meaning sentences can work. Of course put in some imagination and then you have got the person.

  6. Logo Design Templates on September 25th, 2008

    I like him.Thanks a lot.

  7. Full Tilt rakeback on September 25th, 2008

    I think the best way to get it done is to be natural and also at the same time to be relaxed.

    When you chat online there are moments you get irritated easily or sometimes getting too daring,I think that should be avoided too. Then there is no problem.

  8. Current Downloads on September 27th, 2008

    i think that flirting online is much than flirting in real with the person. this is what happens with me all the time.

  9. Watch anime Online on October 4th, 2008

    Flirting in resl is much better than flirting online as you can touch ! ! ! !

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