Dress sexy every day
I hear so many people complaining that they aren’t getting enough sex and then I see them or see photos and holy cow - some of the stuff they wear should have been tossed into the trash ages ago.
If you want to get more sex or you wish that you felt like having sex more often, then go through your wardrobe and toss out those baggy sweatpants and oversized paint splattered t-shirts. You don’t have to go out looking like a supermodel but you should always look your best, even when you’re sitting at home. Look at the woman in the photo. Does she feel sexy in those clothes? Probably not.
An old friend of mine, who I think is the sexiest woman on the planet, would always look neat, sexy and well groomed no matter if I saw her at 8am on a Tuesday morning or at 10pm at a Friday night party. One day I asked Margaret why she spent so much time doing her hair and makeup when all she was going to do was mow the lawn. Her answer felt like a smack upside the head.
When I wake up in the morning I have a choice. I can go around looking like a slob and my energy feels the same way. When I used to dress tacky I always felt as tired as my clothes looked. Then over time I noticed that when I got up, did my hair, put on makeup and wore clothes that didn’t look like I slept on them all night, I felt better. I had more energy. I felt sexy.. and I got more sex because I wanted more sex. It felt good. So I threw out everything that didn’t make me feel sexy.
So I took a page out of Margaret’s book of life and have always remembered that when I got up and said, “I’m not going anywhere today so I don’t need to do my hair or put on makeup.” I always feel better and I get more done when I feel good about the way I look.
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While I agree dressing better makes one feel better I still cannot justify dressing nicely and doing my makeup - just to mow the lawn or get on my hands and knees to wash floors, etc.
I am usually in my sweats until around lunchtime - when all my cleaning and yard work is (usually) done.
Why shower, get dressed and put on makeup, only to get sweaty and dirty and feel gross - which leads to needing to shower, change clothes, and re-do hair and makeup!
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Personally I think sexiness comes from within and has little to do with how we look or what we are wearing.
Great hints! I agre 100%!
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Carl
I think the first judgment people make of you is usually based on what you wear. Clothing is the first clue absorbed by the eye before the brain judges first impression. In fact, clothes have become the most important judging factor of first impression, and in this day and age, where the package counts as much as the product, it could be the difference between a new job and another rejection. Nice post.
I absolutely agree. While I do not wear makeup and dress nicely every waking hour, I do when I expect to see people, including my better half. He can’t seem to understand why, if I am only running down to the corner convenient store for a second, that it means taking a shower, if I have been working, and changing my clothes. Although, he loves for me to wear makeup, and skirts, shorts long and short, and hated it when we first met that I wouldn’t wear shorts.
I have very long legs, and have been known for them my whole life, when I went through a period when they weren’t being exercised the way that they should, and didn’t meet my personal expectations, I quite showing them off for awhile. This angered him greatly. He told me he fell in love with my legs the moment he laid eyes on me, but he never dreamed he would never be given the opportunity to see them. So grudgingly I started little by little letting them peak out in a skirt and shorts again, much to his delight.
As far as changing the way you feel inside, it’s a given. Along with putting a smile on your face, even when you don’t want to. A smile on your face changes what you feel inside.
~Best wishes~
Another great article.
I like Margaret’s advice. Of course, I am a man, but even for men there is something to think about there. It is true that when you look good you feel good too, and it can be contagious to others around you as well. When I saw the post, I thought it seemed a little bit vain, but after reading, I think that it makes a lot of sense, and quite truthful. Great post!
Cheers!
Looking at the woman in the photo, no she doesn’t look sexy, but she could, and while still wearing those clothes. It’s a matter of how you conduct yourself, and there is no reason to feel you don’t look good at any time. It’s a case of self-perception.
Looking good makes you feel good and behave differently, it does work. If you are shaggy, in baggy clothing, with no make-up (face-off) - man can treat you as a friend/sister/somebody to care for, but not as a Woman. there were no goddesses in mythology that would wear pajamas… at least when they knew someone’s looking at them:)
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As a freelancer, I find myself constantly working in my pajamas or getting up and making my coffee and sitting down in front of the computer to enjoy it and begin working and then suddenly, before I know it, I’ve been working all day and I’m still in my pajamas. I’ve noticed, though, that when I wake up and before sitting down to work, if I take a bath, get dressed and do my makeup and hair, I’m energized for the rest of the day and I work a lot faster, too. I don’t know if it makes me feel sexier, perse, but I am definitely more productive.
Sometimes it’s hard to find clothes that you feel sexy IN… that’s a hard one for me. But it totally helps! There’s definitely a boost inside when you know you look your best on the outside
I think that people often reflect their clothes as well as their enviroment and i myself find that when I wake up and throw on some sweat pants that i tend to laze around the house more