Differences Between Men and Women

I’m speaking here about men and women who are seeking new partners for a long term relationship, a long term casual relationship or something short term just for a bit of fun. As many of you know, I’ve been running a large adult dating site at SexyAds.com for a long time - over ten years. In all that time I’ve seen so many men and quite a few women going at it all wrong.

If you read the book Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus by John Gray, you can use his ideas for improving the way you approach dating, whether online or offline. Women are looking for someone to love them and someone they can nurture and when they’ve found that, they readily come across with some hot sex. Sadly, that’s not how men approach women. Men look for a woman they like who’ll give them passion and intimacy and then they fall in love with her. How have we managed to survive as a species??

Obviously we have because none of the rules are hard and fast. Women have learned that they have to give a little to get a little and men have learned to meet women’s needs in order to get what they need in return. The single people who are left are who this message is for.

If you have been unlucky in finding that perfect person, take a page out of John Gray’s book and approach the opposite sex by providing what they are looking for. Meet them half way. Women - try to flirt a bit in your online ad. Men - do a bit of listening and show interest in what she has to say. Once you get to meet in person, and if you like each other - human nature takes over and all the bits you want to happen WILL happen.