Deal Breakers

I was in chat the other day talking with a woman I’ve known at SexyAds for years. I asked her what she was looking for and why hadn’t she found the right one.

“I’m looking for a man who can make me think, make me laugh and make me come and I haven’t found it yet. I’m not going to settle for 2 out of 3.”

That made me think.. where do we draw the line as to what is good enough in a partner?

For me, a man has to be as bright or brighter than I, has to be able to carry on a conversation about most anything, has to be interested in the world and people around him, I get sick around cigarettes, so a non-smoker it has to be, and he has to be able to get my motor going with just his words. Anything less than this and there’s a very slim chance we’ll get to gargling genitals anytime soon.

I’m willing to settle on whether he has hair or a beard or hates to dress up or has too much beer on the weekend or changes the channel right when I get interested.

Have you given any thought to what personality traits and quirks are hard and fast rules and which wouldn’t be deal breakers?