Men, (most men that is) are interested in having a sexual relationship with 99% of the women they meet over a lifetime. This is not a joke. Men have told me this for years and I’m old enough for those years to count!

Men think about sex every 7 seconds throughout the day.

Men also have no control over who they find attractive, dont be fooled by religious figures that think this can be controlled. It is simply a natural thing in men.

Given the above truth about what men are thinking about during every waking hour, it should not be a surprise that a man will sleep with any of his female friends, even if he does not desire a full blown relationship with them. If the mood is right and the female friend is willing I will guarantee action will take place.

I’ve always said if you put a man and a woman together, nature takes over.

Additionally, just because you have had sex doesnt mean you cant also be friends. Yes, I know this complicates things, but men will happily be friends and have sex on ocassion. Why women are so anti-friends with benefits is beyond me, but at the same time there should never be any pressure to be FWB. Sometimes a good fucking can help you get to know someone better than you would as just friends. I recommend giving it a try if you have that urge inside. Dont wait for your friend to find someone better to regret taking that step further.

The Smart-Ass

Every man likes an articulate woman, a girl who can voice her opinion, sound intelligent and impress your friends with a philosophical debate on the downward spiral of modern politics. OK, maybe that’s pushing it a bit, but a woman with verbal confidence can be a hell of a turn-on. But let’s be realistic—while it’s always nice to date someone who is charismatic and well-versed, it’s something quite different to date a woman who beats the opinionated war drum.

Unfortunately, these types exist, and for those who haven’t had the privilege of strapping on your helmet and hunkering down for a verbal assault, you’re definitely not missing out. Everyone comes from different wombs, so why does she seem to get angry with you when you can’t agree? Some women simply like to test you to see how well you stand up for yourself; others just like to exert their own power. The Smart-Ass exposes your intellectual weaknesses and will subsequently cut you down because of it. This is a type to avoid at all costs, as she will make the rest of your evening miserable while she stomps on your heart with an egomaniacal boot.

The Gold Digger

It doesn’t take a genius to know that wooing a woman requires a trifocal effort of body, soul and spending power. As standard romantic procedures, you’re going to have to take her for dinner, buy her flowers, whisk her away to the mountains for the weekend, and show her that the world is your oyster and she’s the pearl. But if I can give a word of caution to my free-spending comrades out there (I’m guilty of this too), make damn sure she’s actually enjoying your company and not just your wallet. If you start to notice that she’s expecting you to pay for everything but the kitchen sink, your credit card bill should be enough of a red flag to warrant an emergency landing.

Here’s some sound advice—if you approach a woman and the first words out of her mouth are “I’ll have a Vodka Seven,” chances are she’s probably out to score some freebies, so proceed with caution. If her friends show up and start ordering drinks as well, there’s a good chance they’ll all dissipate into the crowd once they’ve been served, leaving you with the tab. Avoid the Gold Digger type at all costs. Like the old proverb goes, you can’t buy happiness, and a woman who thinks otherwise isn’t worth your time.

Ms. Right

It was not too long ago that I had to end a relationship with this type of woman, much to my disappointment. She had a bevy of outstanding qualities, but her inability to accept a different opinion ultimately led to a breakup. Every time we got together, she would declare her astuteness and would never take my advice because it was always wrong. Ms. Right is, well, stubbornly set in her ways—she’s correct about everything, and if you even so much as make an unfavorable whisper, she’ll lash out at you with the voraciousness of a python. The sad part is, Ms. Right types are hard to change, as their personal pride tends to get in the way of understanding others and the world around her, so all you can really do is avoid these women. She may have been spoiled as a child, or perhaps she has just hung around too many snotty girlfriends for her own good. Either way, the red flags on these women fly high. Steer clear.

The Psycho

What is it about women who feel the need to call their man 10 times a day? More importantly, what is the guy going to tell a woman that he didn’t just talk about an hour ago? The Psycho will disrupt the balance you have in your day between work and home. She will meld your personal life with your business life, and make it clear to you that she exists and is planting her rump right in the middle of your daily agenda. What’s worse, if you tell her to stop being so obsessive and dependent, she’ll completely deny any obsession she has. She will see it as a sign that she has to work harder to win you over, and then she’ll end up bothering you more. See the vicious cycle here? The Psycho will never give up, and will drown you in her own insecurities about relationships and life. If you find yourself in this predicament, I encourage you to take the blue pill and wake up from your impending nightmare.

The Rebound

This type of woman is probably the most notorious on this list. You’ve heard the warnings to avoid being the “rebound” guy, and it’s a proven piece of advice. But yet, so many of us mistakenly fall for a woman without having a clue about her past relationships. When we encounter a beautiful woman who makes a hell of a first impression, the attraction we feel is clockwork human behavior. We seem to skip over our judgments in the hope that this will be love at first sight. But in this day and age, we are more often than not led down the wrong path, and what guys see as a blessed relationship is really just a temporary comfort for her.

The Rebound knows you are a good guy, so don’t think you’re failing the test. However, you’ve shown up at the right place at the wrong time—the invitation said seven, but you arrived at six. You’re too early, and she’s not ready. It’s difficult to offer any advice on how to pinpoint these types of women, but a good indicator is how persistent her friends are in trying to set her up with you, and how reluctant she is to do it, much to the chagrin of her friends. If you sense reluctance, trust your instinct. Don’t bite.

There’s Still Hope

With your head now freshly crammed with the follies of the five sin-ettes, you’re probably wondering if there are any types out there that are worth pursuing. And my answer is: there most definitely are. You would be doing yourself a disservice to look for the types of women to avoid. Rather, find women that are your type and then decide whether to continue the pursuit You can never go wrong by playing the field—remember: not even trying is the biggest avoidance of all.

Not that I’m a prude or think that at 75 any woman isn’t entitled to a good sex life. But really, think about it. A man interested in having sex with a 75 year old woman is probably going to have crap eyesight and won’t be able to tell she’s been “aesthetically enhanced” down below. Now I’m no spring chicken myself but I can’t imagine needing cosmetic surgery on the lower playpen.

I want to stay policitcally correct here — seriously, I don’t think there are heaps of much younger men dating a 75 year old woman. I’m willing to be corrected. If there are and they are all thinking the woman needs a bit of a nip and tuck, I say dump him. Now it could be possible that this enhancement is for her own reasons. I’m having a vision of a 75 year old woman sitting with a mirror between her legs just to adore the beauty of it all. Gimme a freakin break!! Doctors who do this on women over 60 are taking advantage of the women.

Now about the guy who’s having sex with the 75 year old woman. Let’s just say he’s on the high side of 50 just to be conservative. I bet his willy isn’t going to be ready for prime time either! Men and women have been getting it on for how many thousands of years? How can it be that we’ve just now noticed that the vajayjay isn’t pretty? Ladies, it’s not supposed to be pretty – it’s there for function and most of them function pretty darn well. At least at my house anyway and I haven’t spent a lot of time looking at mine lately.

Apparently Nina, the woman who had the surgery done that this post is about, was delighted with the results and felt like a young woman again. I can see it now. She’s got wrinkles all over her face, fat ankles, tits past her waist but she’s got the vagina of a 20 year old. Yay!

I’d rather be an old sexy granny with the same goods that came from the manufacturer, how about you?

So why hasn’t some huge porn producer realized that if they took the soap opera routine and added a few naughty bits that they’d get women in droves to their sales counters? Dunno.. it’s weird to me.

Soap operas have the romance, the foreplay and the sex but we never see the sex and nudity bits. We know they’re doing it though and often that’s enough for a woman to get her motor going. It’s sex of the mind and that’s where they rake in the women.

Most women need to feel sexy in our minds before our bodies respond in that wild, wacky way that sets men’s hearts on fire. Men reach for their porn magazines or their porn websites and boom, they’re off to the races. It’s the same for women but the method is different.

I’ve read more than a few ads from men with the message that they’re seeking a woman because their wives can’t/won’t give them as much sex as they want. If he thought about that line for just a few minutes, I think he’d realize that the first thing a woman is going to say to herself is, “why is responsibility for his sexual needs my responsibility?” Sure, women like sex as much as anyone else but for the most part, women are seeking the total package – even if it’s an affair.

As what Tiffany Taylor tells us “women are actually quite easy to seduce if you know the unwritten rules of the game”. Men must understand that they present themselves to women in a way that plays against her needs, her desires and the type of man she sees in her mind as ideal. Ask yourself these questions:

1. Are you confident about how you approach dating?
2. Do you flirt? Do you get good results from it?
3. Can you make a woman smile or laugh?
4. Are you comfortable in conversations with women?

From our perspective behind the scenes, even if you’re looking for a casual affair, a woman will want positive feelings about all four of those questions. While for a few it’s all about the size of your cock, the majority of women want a whole man even if it’s just a fun roll in the hay.

By 30, you should have:

1. One old boyfriend you can imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you’ve come.
2. A decent piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family.
3. Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour.
4. A purse, a suitcase and an umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying.
5. A youth you’re content to move beyond.
6. A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age.
7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age—and some money set aside to help fund it.
8. An e-mail address, a voice mailbox and a bank account—all of which nobody has access to but you.
9. A résumé that is not even the slightest bit padded.
10. One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry.
11. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill and a black lace bra.
12. Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it.
13. The belief that you deserve it.
14. A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don’t get better after 30.
15. A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship and all those other facets of life that do get better.

By 30, you should know:

1. How to fall in love without losing yourself.
2. How you feel about having kids.
3. How to quit a job, break up with a man and confront a friend without ruining the friendship.
4. When to try harder and when to walk away.
5. How to kiss in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.
6. The names of: the secretary of state, your great-grandmother and the best tailor in town.
7. How to live alone, even if you don’t like to.
8. How to take control of your own birthday.
9. That you can’t change the length of your calves, the width of your hips or the nature of your parents.
10. That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it’s over.
11. What you would and wouldn’t do for money or love.
12. That nobody gets away with smoking, drinking, doing drugs or not flossing for very long.
13. Who you can trust, who you can’t and why you shouldn’t take it personally.
14. Not to apologize for something that isn’t your fault.
15. Why they say life begins at 30.

No. 1- She is always on your mind.
There might be a lot of things that a normal guy thinks about. But regardless of the millions of thoughts that can occupy his mind, she (the woman) becomes the center of his mind’s attention. There may be certain things that bother him but he rejects these thoughts in place of the wonderful memories that the girl brings him.

No. 2 – You remember her scent. You remember the smell of her hair and her lips.
The scent of her hair and the taste of her lips- these are jsut some of the weird but cute things that a guy remembers in the girl that he likes. They might not be together at certain times but he remembers the smell (fruity, flirty and what not) of her hair. He remembers the flavor of her lip gloss and the color of her lips. It might sound weird but this is actually true. The scent of a woman stays in the guy’s mind and his olfactory nerve!

No. 3- You have the urge to protect her.
For guys in love, they have this feeling that they can be the girl’s protector. They can’t bear to see the woman they love suffer. They want to keep them from harm’s way. They might even make a vow to do everything and anything in their powers to ensure the woman’s safety and happiness.

These are just some of the things that a guy can feel when is on the brink of falling hard for that ideal woman. Guys may have different experiences from each other but the most important thing is that they realize the value of love and the value of the woman they love.

I was sent the link by someone and I started to have a look around and in just a few minutes I wanted to make a comment. Usually when that happens I try to bite my fingers off because I know I’ve got to put my details in and then wait around for mail to get on a carrier pigeon and then I have to validate the mail and by then I’ve forgotten the name and password. Not so with DivineCaroline.com. They didn’t ask for many details and then POOF I was in. Not only that, but the first page you get to after logging in the first time gives you all the options on what to do next.

The site is filled with great articles about everything from relationships, food, travel, fashion, careers, money — frankly anything that would interest a woman is here. It’s now my first go to place when I log in every day just to see who’s written what. There are also forums and a place called chitchat but I haven’t checked that out yet.

The best bit is that I’m going to contribute some articles there in the relationship section. You can too. All you have to do is have a subject to write about (they’ll even give you suggestions on that too) and then submit your article. They’ve got editors galore who’ll get your words published on the site in just a day or so.

Anyway, see you there!