Can men and women just be friends for a lifetime? Unless one or both of them are gay, I believe the answer is no. And even in the case of one friend being gay, there can still be sexual tension. However, that’s not the point here.

Men, (most men that is) are interested in having a sexual relationship with 99% of the women they meet over a lifetime. This is not a joke. Men have told me this for years and I’m old enough for those years to count!

Men think about sex every 7 seconds throughout the day.

Men also have no control over who they find attractive, dont be fooled by religious figures that think this can be controlled. It is simply a natural thing in men.

Given the above truth about what men are thinking about during every waking hour, it should not be a surprise that a man will sleep with any of his female friends, even if he does not desire a full blown relationship with them. If the mood is right and the female friend is willing I will guarantee action will take place.

I’ve always said if you put a man and a woman together, nature takes over.

Additionally, just because you have had sex doesnt mean you cant also be friends. Yes, I know this complicates things, but men will happily be friends and have sex on ocassion. Why women are so anti-friends with benefits is beyond me, but at the same time there should never be any pressure to be FWB. Sometimes a good fucking can help you get to know someone better than you would as just friends. I recommend giving it a try if you have that urge inside. Dont wait for your friend to find someone better to regret taking that step further.

When pursuing your lady, use this as a guide—The Player’s list of five types of women you should avoid. The Player has encountered many types of women in his existence, so who better to make a list than someone who’s been through the entire book? Don’t worry though, this list isn’t gospel—it simply offers a few guidelines to keep you from meeting Dr. Jekyll, but dating Mrs. Hyde… proceed at your own discretion.

The Smart-Ass

Every man likes an articulate woman, a girl who can voice her opinion, sound intelligent and impress your friends with a philosophical debate on the downward spiral of modern politics. OK, maybe that’s pushing it a bit, but a woman with verbal confidence can be a hell of a turn-on. But let’s be realistic—while it’s always nice to date someone who is charismatic and well-versed, it’s something quite different to date a woman who beats the opinionated war drum.

Unfortunately, these types exist, and for those who haven’t had the privilege of strapping on your helmet and hunkering down for a verbal assault, you’re definitely not missing out. Everyone comes from different wombs, so why does she seem to get angry with you when you can’t agree? Some women simply like to test you to see how well you stand up for yourself; others just like to exert their own power. The Smart-Ass exposes your intellectual weaknesses and will subsequently cut you down because of it. This is a type to avoid at all costs, as she will make the rest of your evening miserable while she stomps on your heart with an egomaniacal boot.

The Gold Digger

It doesn’t take a genius to know that wooing a woman requires a trifocal effort of body, soul and spending power. As standard romantic procedures, you’re going to have to take her for dinner, buy her flowers, whisk her away to the mountains for the weekend, and show her that the world is your oyster and she’s the pearl. But if I can give a word of caution to my free-spending comrades out there (I’m guilty of this too), make damn sure she’s actually enjoying your company and not just your wallet. If you start to notice that she’s expecting you to pay for everything but the kitchen sink, your credit card bill should be enough of a red flag to warrant an emergency landing.

Here’s some sound advice—if you approach a woman and the first words out of her mouth are “I’ll have a Vodka Seven,” chances are she’s probably out to score some freebies, so proceed with caution. If her friends show up and start ordering drinks as well, there’s a good chance they’ll all dissipate into the crowd once they’ve been served, leaving you with the tab. Avoid the Gold Digger type at all costs. Like the old proverb goes, you can’t buy happiness, and a woman who thinks otherwise isn’t worth your time.

Ms. Right

It was not too long ago that I had to end a relationship with this type of woman, much to my disappointment. She had a bevy of outstanding qualities, but her inability to accept a different opinion ultimately led to a breakup. Every time we got together, she would declare her astuteness and would never take my advice because it was always wrong. Ms. Right is, well, stubbornly set in her ways—she’s correct about everything, and if you even so much as make an unfavorable whisper, she’ll lash out at you with the voraciousness of a python. The sad part is, Ms. Right types are hard to change, as their personal pride tends to get in the way of understanding others and the world around her, so all you can really do is avoid these women. She may have been spoiled as a child, or perhaps she has just hung around too many snotty girlfriends for her own good. Either way, the red flags on these women fly high. Steer clear.

The Psycho

What is it about women who feel the need to call their man 10 times a day? More importantly, what is the guy going to tell a woman that he didn’t just talk about an hour ago? The Psycho will disrupt the balance you have in your day between work and home. She will meld your personal life with your business life, and make it clear to you that she exists and is planting her rump right in the middle of your daily agenda. What’s worse, if you tell her to stop being so obsessive and dependent, she’ll completely deny any obsession she has. She will see it as a sign that she has to work harder to win you over, and then she’ll end up bothering you more. See the vicious cycle here? The Psycho will never give up, and will drown you in her own insecurities about relationships and life. If you find yourself in this predicament, I encourage you to take the blue pill and wake up from your impending nightmare.

The Rebound

This type of woman is probably the most notorious on this list. You’ve heard the warnings to avoid being the “rebound” guy, and it’s a proven piece of advice. But yet, so many of us mistakenly fall for a woman without having a clue about her past relationships. When we encounter a beautiful woman who makes a hell of a first impression, the attraction we feel is clockwork human behavior. We seem to skip over our judgments in the hope that this will be love at first sight. But in this day and age, we are more often than not led down the wrong path, and what guys see as a blessed relationship is really just a temporary comfort for her.

The Rebound knows you are a good guy, so don’t think you’re failing the test. However, you’ve shown up at the right place at the wrong time—the invitation said seven, but you arrived at six. You’re too early, and she’s not ready. It’s difficult to offer any advice on how to pinpoint these types of women, but a good indicator is how persistent her friends are in trying to set her up with you, and how reluctant she is to do it, much to the chagrin of her friends. If you sense reluctance, trust your instinct. Don’t bite.

There’s Still Hope

With your head now freshly crammed with the follies of the five sin-ettes, you’re probably wondering if there are any types out there that are worth pursuing. And my answer is: there most definitely are. You would be doing yourself a disservice to look for the types of women to avoid. Rather, find women that are your type and then decide whether to continue the pursuit You can never go wrong by playing the field—remember: not even trying is the biggest avoidance of all.

I just read an article about a 75 year old Russian grandma that shocked doctors by requesting plastic surgery for a ‘designer vagina’ Holy Cow, that is just wrong on so many levels!

Not that I’m a prude or think that at 75 any woman isn’t entitled to a good sex life. But really, think about it. A man interested in having sex with a 75 year old woman is probably going to have crap eyesight and won’t be able to tell she’s been “aesthetically enhanced” down below. Now I’m no spring chicken myself but I can’t imagine needing cosmetic surgery on the lower playpen.

I want to stay policitcally correct here — seriously, I don’t think there are heaps of much younger men dating a 75 year old woman. I’m willing to be corrected. If there are and they are all thinking the woman needs a bit of a nip and tuck, I say dump him. Now it could be possible that this enhancement is for her own reasons. I’m having a vision of a 75 year old woman sitting with a mirror between her legs just to adore the beauty of it all. Gimme a freakin break!! Doctors who do this on women over 60 are taking advantage of the women.

Now about the guy who’s having sex with the 75 year old woman. Let’s just say he’s on the high side of 50 just to be conservative. I bet his willy isn’t going to be ready for prime time either! Men and women have been getting it on for how many thousands of years? How can it be that we’ve just now noticed that the vajayjay isn’t pretty? Ladies, it’s not supposed to be pretty – it’s there for function and most of them function pretty darn well. At least at my house anyway and I haven’t spent a lot of time looking at mine lately.

Apparently Nina, the woman who had the surgery done that this post is about, was delighted with the results and felt like a young woman again. I can see it now. She’s got wrinkles all over her face, fat ankles, tits past her waist but she’s got the vagina of a 20 year old. Yay!

I’d rather be an old sexy granny with the same goods that came from the manufacturer, how about you?

Why do you think soap operas have been so popular on tv for so long? I reckon it’s because it’s porn for women without the explicit stuff. They leave all that to our imagination because women love to put themselves into situations they see on tv, in movies and in books. With guys, it’s more a visual thing but for women – we like the romance, the wining, the dining, the beautiful lingerie, and exquisite bed linens – all fodder for our imagination.

So why hasn’t some huge porn producer realized that if they took the soap opera routine and added a few naughty bits that they’d get women in droves to their sales counters? Dunno.. it’s weird to me.

Soap operas have the romance, the foreplay and the sex but we never see the sex and nudity bits. We know they’re doing it though and often that’s enough for a woman to get her motor going. It’s sex of the mind and that’s where they rake in the women.

Most women need to feel sexy in our minds before our bodies respond in that wild, wacky way that sets men’s hearts on fire. Men reach for their porn magazines or their porn websites and boom, they’re off to the races. It’s the same for women but the method is different.

Attracting a woman isn’t as difficult as many men perceive it to be. I get letters every week asking me what they are doing wrong because they aren’t making any headway in getting noticed. It is simply the matter of knowing exactly how to attract women and what to say to them.

I’ve read more than a few ads from men with the message that they’re seeking a woman because their wives can’t/won’t give them as much sex as they want. If he thought about that line for just a few minutes, I think he’d realize that the first thing a woman is going to say to herself is, “why is responsibility for his sexual needs my responsibility?” Sure, women like sex as much as anyone else but for the most part, women are seeking the total package – even if it’s an affair.

As what Tiffany Taylor tells us “women are actually quite easy to seduce if you know the unwritten rules of the game”. Men must understand that they present themselves to women in a way that plays against her needs, her desires and the type of man she sees in her mind as ideal. Ask yourself these questions:

1. Are you confident about how you approach dating?
2. Do you flirt? Do you get good results from it?
3. Can you make a woman smile or laugh?
4. Are you comfortable in conversations with women?

From our perspective behind the scenes, even if you’re looking for a casual affair, a woman will want positive feelings about all four of those questions. While for a few it’s all about the size of your cock, the majority of women want a whole man even if it’s just a fun roll in the hay.