I think I might be the only one in the world not to have seen this video but it’s really clever and leaves you with a smile on your face cause you never expect what it’s going to be until he finishes.

Doesn’t it bug you when you see women with a great rack and she’s got it all squooshed in the wrong places — especially if she’s well endowed?

If you have been blessed with abundance in the bosom department, you don’t have to hoist them up in a plain boring bra any more. If you’ve got it, flaunt it, but make sure the new bra fits your shape! Your breasts deserve to be sexy, sassy and well.. hot! Treat them to fine lace, leopard print or satin and get out of white — put some color up there! Even if you don’t have more than a mouthful, it’s always nice to know how to know for sure that you’ve got the right size for your shape.

It’s true that the larger your breasts are, the more difficult it is to find a bra that fits well. Sometimes the underwire pinches or doesn’t feel right or there’s more of you than the bra can hold and you have spillout at the top. So for you, make sure you get the right size to begin with.

Get a soft tape measure and stand in front of a mirror and starting at the center, pass the tape measure around your body to be even just underneath your breasts. This is your band size.

Next, move the tape up to your armpits and measure above your breasts. Write that number down on a piece of paper. Now, measure your breast at nipple level, where you stick out most. Subtract the number you wrote down from the nipple-around-and-back measurement, and voila! Now you can figure your cup size!

Look below for the difference between the two numbers and that’s your cup size and remember, it’s not about numbers, it’s about looking good and feeling comfortable while you’re incredibly sexy!

0 to 1/2″ AA cup
1/2″ to 1″ A cup
1″ to 2 1/2″ B cup
2 1/2″ to 3 1/2″ C cup
3 1/2″ to 4 1/2″ D cup
4 1/2″ to 6″ DD (or E cup for some bras)
6″ to 7″ DDD (or F cup for some bras)
7″ to 8″ G cup
8″ to 9″ GG cup
9″ to 10″ H cup
10″ to 11″ HH cup
11″ to 12″ J cup
12″ to 13″ JJ cup

Think about all your female friends. Think about which ones you feel are happiest. I’ll bet they all have close female friends to talk with. I swear I think that women who have few close friends but are in a good relationships with a man aren’t as happy as they could be. She’s probably got a gazillion unspoken words in her mouth just dying to come out.

When we’re out for the evening, women like to go to the bathroom together. It’s not about needing a guard for the door – it’s about doing a bit of gossip! Who’s wearing what and who’s with whom and did you see the way she was leering at him? We get those words out, go back to our spouses and all is happy.

If you’ve got a woman in your life that doesn’t seem happy, encourage her to spend an afternoon with her friends. Notice how relaxed and happy she is when she returns!

For years I’ve been interested in the power of the mind and how our minds create our own reality. I began with a book by Shakti Gawain called Creative Visualization and used the techniques she wrote about and my life changed completely within months. So completely that I stopped doing any meditaion at all and got on with my new life in a different country and in a new relationship. Perhaps I felt that I got what I wanted and never needed meditation or relaxation again. I honestly don’t know why, but I just stopped.

Then my son gave me a copy of The Secret that he’d been given by the restaurant he works for, Ted’s Montana Grill in Decatur, Georgia – just outside of Atlanta. He told me that it was a bit unbelievable for him but I might be interested since he remembered that I once did a bit of meditation. I watched the movie and it brought back a lot of what I’d learned previously but there was much I didn’t agree with.

I believe that everything in the universe is made up of energy and we’re all a part of it. I’m not sure why we’re born but I am convinced that once we die, our bits that think return to universal intelligence. I think we’re all here to do good for each other and the world we live in so that when we leave it’s a better place than when we arrived. The Secret teaches that it’s all about us – what we want. There is no right or wrong, we only need to feel good and we can get everything. “It’s as easy to manifest a castle as it is to manifest a button,” we’re told.

So I continued looking for something that was a better fit for what I believed – my gut feeling for how life works. I was raised as a Roman Catholic but once I was divorced I was a non-person to them unless I wanted to fil out long forms, get my family and friends to fill out long forms – all to say that I hadn’t had a “real” marriage so I could stay in the church. That was a lie. I had had a real marriage but it didn’t work. If the church felt that in order for me to remain a member in good standing I had to endure physical and emotional abuse OR remain single and celibate from the age of 27, that wasn’t the God I felt I knew.

I stumbled upon Jose Silva’s Ultramind System not too long ago and it’s a perfect fit for what I believe. I won’t deny that bits of it are a bit airy fairy but maybe that’s because I haven’t learned enough or practiced the meditations enough. In just a short time I’ve realized improvements in how I feel, my business is doing better and my relationship with my husband is better than ever.

My plan now is to investigate how our minds can help to create better, more loving relationships. People the world over are looking for positive, nurturing partners to share their lives with and maybe this is a tool to make it happen easier and faster than anything they’ve tried before. If you have tried The Secret, Shakti Gawain or Silva Ultramind, I’d love to hear from you.

Someone sent me a link to TylerCruz.com to have a look at a post he’d written about blogs and advertising. The guy is spot on, I reckon. He advises people with new blogs or even old blogs with very little readership to think about removing all their Google adsense ads or linkshare banners or any other advertising and replace them with links to traffic partners. It’s really simple if you think about it. He’s certainly an up and coming blog advertising hotshot.

He reminds us that YouTube.com was sold recently for $1.6 BILLION dollars and they never had the first bit of advertising on their sites. They did it all by concentrating on always making their site look or work better.

While I was on Tyler Cruz’s site, I had a look around to see what else he might be pontificating about that could potentially help ME get more traffic to FeelingFlirty.com and I had to laugh. He showed photos of his condo and of his stats and to be honest, he’s not doing a whole lot better than I am with my blog. So maybe we’ll be able to help each other. One of these days I’ll link to him from a post that I place on my other site, SexyAds.com, and get him exposure to over a million sets of eyes.