First Impressions
Just a little heads up for some of you who aren’t tops in the spelling department. Your ad and your blog are the first impression you make on a potential new partner. If you have trouble spelling, it can make your ad more difficult to read. There are a couple of words that many people misspell. One is discreet. I’ve seen it spelled as discrete, discreat and discreete. The correct spelling is discreet.
The next word that is most often misspelled is tongue. Lots of you like that word and it comes out as tounge. Now if you’re trying to impress someone with the abilities that your tongue has, she’s going to miss the sizzle and wonder about the word. The correct spelling is tongue. I know it’s a stupid way to spell it. It should be tung but it’s not.
Most people can read through typo. It’s a new language for most of us. Don’t sweat it; just remember that the best first impression you can make will reap benefits for you.


We’re in Europe for a few days to attend my stepson’s university graduation in England. The trip from New Zealand – Australia to London was a long one. I was really looking forward to traveling on the new A380 plane that Emirates uses on its long haul flights. We’ve all heard the advertising – largest commercial jet in the world – all the mod cons – bar in the back of the plane. I was full of anticipation getting on the plane.
The first time I got up to use the restrooms I had to walk through the bar and every other time I went I saw the same people. Lovers spend their time in the bar because that’s the only place they can touch!
Nobody’s perfect including in the sex department, but it’s one area where we all strive for perfection. I was thinking about what to write today when I remembered an email conversation I had with a woman recently. She’d begun a new relationship that ended up with both of them tearing their clothes off and jumping in the sack. Sounded good to me. It was obvious that the foreplay had begun before they were in bed and that’s a real plus as any woman will tell you.

