Are big jugs better in bed?
I’m not sure why but quite a lot of men think women with large breasts are better in the bedroom department. I’m not sure where this idea comes from, but I suppose it’s that a lot of men find big breasts sexually desirable, therefore.. stupidly… those women must be better in bed. Wrong!!
Since I’m more than amply endowed, perhaps I shouldn’t say that but breast size has no more to do with sexual ability or enjoyment than penis size does in my opinion. Just as the size of the pencil isn’t as important as what you write with it, love bubbles come in all sizes.
While we’re on the subject of breasts, I was talking with a guy a couple of weeks ago who loves large breasted women. I couldn’t believe it when he told me that he really really enjoyed talking with a woman online.
“When we met in person I was so disappointed because she has such small boobs, otherwise she would have been perfect for me,” he said.
Huh??
I asked him if breast size was more important than being perfect in every other way and he said yes. He just couldn’t get turned on by small breasts. Okay, fair enough I thought, so then I asked him if he’d be in a position to help her have breast surgery if she was so inclined.
“Oh no,” he said, “I don’t want fake breasts, I only want real ones.”
So then, being the wonderful, kind, old lady person that I am, I said:
“You’re a fucking idiot. Here you have a wonderful woman who seems to care for you very much and the only thing “wrong” with her is that her breasts are smaller than you would like them to be. Are you perfect in every way? Is your dick big enough to make her happy? Wouldn’t you be much happier with a perfect woman who loved being smothered with little boobie kisses than with a big breasted woman that didn’t love you in the same way?
That dampened the conversation down a bit. Ok, it dampened it to the point that the conversation was soaking wet, and over. I didn’t care at the time but the more I thought about it the more I wondered how important it could be to his sexual satisfaction. If big boobs are what he needs to feel good, then who am I to say he’s an idiot?
I hope he thought about it. While sex and sexual gratification is really important to all of us, having someone who’s attractive, kind, sexy, respectful and fun is better. I think he should have sex with her and imagine that she has bigger jugs.
Maybe I’m full of shit.
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In my own humble experiences, my large breasted lover was by far the best of the lot-though I am not at all sure that the size of her breasts effected this much one way or the other.
The most important feature a woman can have is a strong interest in the man she is with. Men are all about ego and we really do believe it when you tell we are the best ever.
Of course, we believe it because it is true.
Personally, i prefer em smaller. Big boobs are actually a negative for me. Hand-size (or smaller) is just fine.
The guy sounds like a moron.
As a man I shall ask,”Do boobs count in sexuality”? Yes they are! I am not saying that big boobs are more sexy, I am saying that they are important to increase sex’s sixth sense. It depends on men’s inner feeling. Truly, i like smaller boobs because they are more suckable for me. Perhaps big boobs can be fucked very well but they are nothing else than a bog weighted cans.
That is such a parity to me, most of the times men don’t like larger, heavy set woman, fat turns them off, do they not realize that’s just what these are? Why all the buzz on boobs? I will never get it. I think men should have their own racks, therefore any time of day, they can reach in and play!
Nah, HE’S full of shit! That guy doesn’t speak for all men. Just the ones who see women as objects. I feel sorry for the jerk.
I agree it’s not about boob or dick size. A loving relationship, based on caring concern for the other, and on actions of love, is a joy he will likely never experience.
I don’t know about big boobs making a woman a better lover, but I do understand personal choice. And unfortunately our individual desire for something can be so significant that it can keep us from someone good overall.
It all depends upon personal choice. I think figure doesn’t play any important role in sexual ability, it is our interest in our partner that makes the love session better.