Here’s a follow up post to the previous video post that I have shared with you guys about orgasm…

So what happens after the orgasm are over? Turn over and go to sleep? Say it ain’t so! For someone to turn over immediately after sex sends the wrong message. It can leave us feeling like little more than a blow-up doll or prostitute and it’s not just women who feel this way.

Make sure your lover doesn’t ever feel empty after sex by giving a bit of a cuddle. You don’t need to discuss “the relationship” nor do you need to say much of anything. You could talk about trying that new position that you’ve been thinking about for next time. It will give your lover some time to get used to the idea and get turned on by it.

Some people really want a shower after sex. It’s OK – but grab your lover and head to the shower together. It’s a good time to built intimacy. If you are completely spent after sex, you could put on some sexy music before sex and cuddle and listen to it as you fall asleep together. In a long term relationship, the more you look at lovemaking as more than penis vagina intercourse, the more sex you’ll get.

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Everyone I know who’s been in the dating game for any time at all has something about them that I consider to be the “wow” factor. Some of them didn’t realize it until I told them and they thought about it and most have agreed with me. For instance, I have a good friend named Sheryl and she’s got the most beautiful hair of any woman that’s 62 years old. Maybe she’s 63 I can never remember if her birthday is before or after mine but I’ve known her since we started kindergarten and that’s a long time in anyone’s book. When I told her that I thought her gorgeous hair was a definite wow factor for me quite a few years ago, she said she’d never really thought about it. Her hair looks like the tv models with the shiny long hair that swooshes when she turns her head. For her to go out without her hair being done would be a shame because it IS her wow factor.

What’s yours? It might be your smile and you get nervous and forget to flash the pearly whites. It might be your posture or your memory, your kindness or compassion or you might have bedroom eyes. Whatever it is, we all have something that’s a wow factor and when the time comes we don’t maximize it like we could. If you don’t think you have a wow factor – and I think you do – you can always decide for yourself what your wow factor is.

Knowing your wow factor can give you confidence. Confident people like themselves. People who like themselves tend to be the people others want to be around. Think about it.

Since the 3rd century people have been reading the seven books of the Kama Sutra to learn better sexual techniques. Now there’s a newer, “classier” version that states it’s a lifestyle guide for modern men and women. Gone are the erotic drawing and sexual illustrations that have always accompanied the different translations of the original Hindu text.

In its place, Penguin Books will publish a text-only version sometime in 2011 in a pocket sized handbook. They describe it as a classy manual covering love and relationships.

A Penguin representative says this is a more accurate, authentic version of the original texts and comes without all the pornography and presenting it as a “modern and savvy guide on how to live well.”

Personally, I’ll miss all the illustrations on how to have sex like a pretzel.

What kind of panties do you wear (for those who DO wear panties)? Are you fond of g-strings, thongs, hipsters, bikinis, plain cotton or even granny panties. Which style of panty do you find the sexiest? Which style makes you feel sexy? Finally, what’s your favorite color of panties?

I have no reason for asking other than curiosity. I went shopping for bras the other day and for the first time, nearly all of them had matching panties. It made me wonder what other women wore and which ones were considered sexy.