Some men never need any help getting their motors revving but really only the stereotypical male is that way. Most men I’ve ever known love it when a woman comes on to them. So what are some tips for you to entice your man?

1. Let him watch you undress. Make sure you’re dressed in some pretty sexy duds and then slowly undress yourself while he’s watching. Run your hands over your body as you uncover each bit – it lets him know that you love your body around he does. You’ll drive him nuts

2. Turn on some music that turns you on and then grab him and hold him tightly. If he’s a dancer, dance around the room but always keep your pelvic areas touching. If he’s not a dancer, stand in one spot and sway – the result will be the same.

3. Prepare him hours beforehand by sending him a text message that says, “Thinking about you right now and I wish I could have you naked, right here, right now.” Or you’ll just be send, “I’ve just showered, I’m naked and all sweet smelling and the only thing missing is you.”

4. Take him shopping for underwear and tell him that you’ll wear whatever he buys provided that it’s comfortable. It will be a very arousing hour or so. When you get home, model your purchases for him.

5. Put a note in his pocket before he leaves for work that says, “Dinner at 7, sex at 8 – don’t be late.” I can almost guarantee that he won’t be late for dinner.

6. When you go out for a romantic dinner, lean over and whisper you have no panties on and wait for him to figure out how to reach up there and find out. He’ll think this is really sexy and you’ve done it just for him.

7. Whisper in his ear and gently nibble and lick his ear while you tell him how sexy you think he is or how good he looks to you right that moment. It will send shivers all over him.

8. If he’s not paying close enough attention to you. Stand up and begin taking your clothes off as you go to the bedroom.. leaving a trail of clothes for him to follow. When he gets to the bedroom he’ll find you naked and waiting.

Have you got foreplay ideas that meet your needs when you want to get your man in the mood? If you’re a guy, what does your partner do for you that will give average folks some ideas?

Have you ever had a day when most things just aren’t going right? Well, I think today is starting out like that. First, I received a “you’ve got a new profile comment” from our site at SexyAds.com and went to check it out. The first comment is show me your tits and the 2nd is a photo with my head on Olive Oyl’s body. Now don’t get me wrong, my head on ANY skinny body would normally make me grin from ear to ear, but before I could enjoy it I saw I had new mail. Without taking the time to reply to the loonies who’d left the two comments, I started answering my mail.

The first email was from a long-time friend and that was nice to catch up. He is living the most extraordinary life and meeting more women that is probably healthy for him. Then I got one of the mails I always dread. What is it about a site like this that turns some men’s brains into mush? It’s like women aren’t real people if they think they’re sexy, so it’s okay to write anything you want and expect a speedy reply. Ok, so here’s what he said – no hello, how are you, what are you looking for, you look interesting.. – nothing at all to make me think he’s remotely interested in me as a human being. Oh no, as far as I’m concerned, to this guy, I’m a walking sperm receptacle. You want to know what the mail said, don’t you?

“You look interesting, I might find time to shag you.”

What planet did he drop off from?? I know I’m not beautiful and I know I’m not skinny, but Mister Turdhead can go screw himself if he thinks for one minute that any woman is desperate enough to respond to that email. Of course that does bring up the fact that he never read my ad that said I am the maintenance person around here and I’m not looking for anyone. If I get mail like that, can you imagine what some women who really are seeking a man are getting?  Women who are actively looking shouldn’t have to read vulgar or explicit emails just because they think they’re sexy and they want to find someone else who feels the same way.  Sexy does not mean crude and vulgar. It never has meant that.

Then I read the next email and my day changed forever. THIS GUY will find someone special within a week. He made me feel like a million dollars in only one line and I can’t imagine a woman who wouldn’t reply to a mail like this. He sent a compliment about the site which was really nice and very much appreciated but he ended it with…

ur yummy by the way – cheers

Not much was it? Everyone likes a compliment – men and women. We love being noticed and appreciated and in 5 words he told me that he’d seen my photo, and had taken the time to learn that I help run the joint. He’s my hero for the day, I tell ya.

If you’re a guy on an adult dating site and you’re not getting the responses you hope for, take a page out of this guy’s book and find something to compliment her about. Show you’ve taken the time to read her ad and check out her photos. You’ll be rewarded.