At least I think that’s what I want. I went for a massage the other day and the masseur also does reflexology and we started having a chat about how it works.

She said she’d give me a 30 minute reflexology session just to see if I liked it. When she touched each part of my foot, she told me which bits of my body were “mirrored” in my feet. The theory is that there are mirrors in several places and when stimulated affect different organs in the body.

Well, it turns out that the area of the brain that feels the genitals is right next to the part of the brain that feels the feet. When you get a foot rub by your sweetie or you go out shoe shopping and try on different styles of shoes, chances are really good that you’re going to get lucky come nightfall. (or afternoonfall or maybe even morningfall) So if you want your spouse to be in the mood, try a foot rub as the beginning of foreplay. I’m feeling sexy just thinking about one.

I tried ‘esplainin all of this to Mr. Flirty but I think it went right over his head. Next time I have a bright idea I’m not going to try to discuss it with him when he’s watching his favorite TV show. What I was hoping was for him to say, “Yes dear, let’s go shoe shopping together.”

This will happen the same day he says, “Honey, I’ll do all the chores this week.”

I know that lots of social networks and chat rooms are available on the net, Lots to choose from to be honest. We have one of our own at SexyAds.com for adults only. What I want to talk about today is a new social network I bumped into while browsing and following links. I’m like most everyone else and I chat and exchange emails with people (including men). I’m happily married but I’m not dead!

At Minglebar.com, you have all the freedom to express yourself; who you are and what you are to the entire world. Minglebar.com has as its goal to provide a place to enhance your social capacity and capability. This will help you grow and make new set of friends in the cyber world which you can always keep in touch with all the time, anytime. You might even make a lot of real life friends too.

You will enjoy yourself at Minglebar.com. The site is easy to use, informative and helpful to those of us trying to perk up our social lives.

All social networks allow us to meet new people, whether they are casual, professional, or potential dates. Introducing yourself to other people and practicing your mingling skills can help you form friendships and build professional relationship as well. What better place to learn these skills. You have no stress, you’re anonymous and if you screw it up, just start over and don’t make those mistakes again.

I’ve taken their challenge myself. I’m going to broaden my social horizon by meeting variety of new people. You should try it too. Who knows, you might find that special someone.. The people you’ll meet will be from your local area, in your region or perhaps from around the world. So many people, so much to learn!

To entice you even more to visit, Minglebar.com are giving away CASH (money, moolah, coin) to one lucky member when they reach their target number of members. .Maybe YOU”LL win the cash AND find that special someone. Click here to try it now.

I spent some time in the chatroom at SexyAds.com this week and happened upon a conversation several women were having about wanting to find a man because life was too hard on their own. After reading the screen for about five minutes I couldn’t contain myself any longer and told them that they were doing it all wrong.

All of the women involved were in their mid 30s to mid 40s and all had jobs. None were on welfare or unable to work. I asked them to tell me specifically how a man could make life better for them. In unison they all said a man would bring more money to the family bank account.

If I were a man that would make me throw up. I told them what they were saying was that it didn’t matter what kind of a person he was, just as long as he had a wallet to share.

Women need to care for themselves. If they don’t earn enough at their jobs to buy all they need, then start an online business on Ebay or get a paper route or bake things and sell them at the local farmer’s market.

What’s interesting to me is when I see a woman who happily takes care of her own affairs, that woman is most always capable of finding a really wonderful partner. She finds him because she wants him, not because she needs him. I know we all like to feel needed but not in the desperate way these women were talking about.

If they find a man who’ll take care of them, the risk is that he will also control them too. It’s the old “I make the gold, therefore I make the rules” routine.

My advice was for them to take care of themselves first, even if it meant having fewer luxury items, because they’ll have a fantastic feeling of empowerment.

This is a poster from 1919 just before prohibition in the US. Have a look at these fine ladies of the temperance league, will ya?

Seriously, would YOU quit drinking to go home to one of these? I’m a woman and they scare me, especially that one on the right in the front row. Imagine sidling up to one of them and asking for a kiss. You’d have to be drunk so they’d look a bit fuzzy.

I’m not sure why but quite a lot of men think women with large breasts are better in the bedroom department. I’m not sure where this idea comes from, but I suppose it’s that a lot of men find big breasts sexually desirable, therefore.. stupidly… those women must be better in bed. Wrong!!

Since I’m more than amply endowed, perhaps I shouldn’t say that but breast size has no more to do with sexual ability or enjoyment than penis size does in my opinion. Just as the size of the pencil isn’t as important as what you write with it, love bubbles come in all sizes.

While we’re on the subject of breasts, I was talking with a guy a couple of weeks ago who loves large breasted women. I couldn’t believe it when he told me that he really really enjoyed talking with a woman online.

“When we met in person I was so disappointed because she has such small boobs, otherwise she would have been perfect for me,” he said.

Huh??

I asked him if breast size was more important than being perfect in every other way and he said yes. He just couldn’t get turned on by small breasts. Okay, fair enough I thought, so then I asked him if he’d be in a position to help her have breast surgery if she was so inclined.

“Oh no,” he said, “I don’t want fake breasts, I only want real ones.”

So then, being the wonderful, kind, old lady person that I am, I said:

“You’re a fucking idiot. Here you have a wonderful woman who seems to care for you very much and the only thing “wrong” with her is that her breasts are smaller than you would like them to be. Are you perfect in every way? Is your dick big enough to make her happy? Wouldn’t you be much happier with a perfect woman who loved being smothered with little boobie kisses than with a big breasted woman that didn’t love you in the same way?

That dampened the conversation down a bit. Ok, it dampened it to the point that the conversation was soaking wet, and over. I didn’t care at the time but the more I thought about it the more I wondered how important it could be to his sexual satisfaction. If big boobs are what he needs to feel good, then who am I to say he’s an idiot?

I hope he thought about it. While sex and sexual gratification is really important to all of us, having someone who’s attractive, kind, sexy, respectful and fun is better. I think he should have sex with her and imagine that she has bigger jugs.

Maybe I’m full of shit.