Once you have found that perfect person who compliments your personality, you settle down and live happily ever after – for the first while. Eventually, sex can become routine and regular, no matter who you are! There is a very true saying that goes: “Show me the world’s most beautiful woman and I will show you a man who is tired of having sex with her”.

This is simply part of being human, we are creatures of habit and tend to fall into a routine because that’s what feels familiar and safe. Familiar and safe is good, but every now and then, you need to live a little, let your inhibitions go and do something different. You will be amazed at how it can rejuvenate your life!

Now on to the sex life, it is no different and will also succumb to the regular day-today routine. Many couples wonder how to spice it up – you may have tried every position you can think of or maybe you have tried having sex on the kitchen table. Try the next step in sharing the pleasure, try a sex toy! No longer the taboo subject it used to be, these days erotic sex toys are designed to make couples spice up their sex life. There is a wide range of sex toys that a couple can use.

When shopping for sex toys, shop together. Browse online, this way there is no worry about being embarrassed to walk into a store. Look together and talk about how you would use the product. The talk might make you horny and you won’t be able to wait until a toy arrives at your door! Shopping together will create anticipation and excitement, just like buying tickets to a beach holiday, you will be counting down the days until it is delivered to your doorstep. By building up this excitement, it will make it more comfortable and fun when it comes time to jump in the sack and give it a go!

As for suggestions, there is such a range of items and every couple has their own preference, so browse the ‘net for sex toys. Take a look at sex articles and read informative pages about how to use sex toys and sex toy reviews to give you some ideas on what you might like and to get your creative juices flowing (no pun intended!). You are sure to find something that sparks your interest – that in turn will spark the passion in the bedroom once again!

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Is it possible to let someone down softly? Can you reject someone you once loved without them feeling pain?

Actually.. no, you can’t. It’s gonna hurt them a lot, especially if they have very strong feelings for you.

Should you put it off hoping that their feelings will lessen over time?

ABSOLUTELY NOT!

A guy said that to me the other day. He was going to hang around until she was ready to kick him out but he’d date new women on the side til he found someone new. At least he was getting a clean house, 3 meals and sex when he wanted it.

I nearly threw up.

How unfair is that? He’s moving on – definitely on the QT and she’s happily humming on thinking he’s committed to the relationship.

He’s a selfish, lazy coward. I’d feel the same way if a woman said she wouldn’t say anything for fear of losing her meal ticket.

What’s wrong with people like that?

Folks, if you are truly unhappy in a relationship, do the right thing. Treat your partner with respect for all the good times in the past. Think golden rule and you’ll understand what I mean. You’d want to know if the shoe was on the other foot. Sure it’s going to be painful but they’ll be able to move on and find someone who will love them just as they are. That person exists — someone exists for every one of us, I’m sure of it.

rant over

Would you date someone with an age difference of more than 10 years? Personally I have always felt more comfortable with someone near my own age. We have similar memories and similar experiences in time. I remember Kennedy being assassinated. I’d feel weird with someone who said, “who?”

The photo is Fred Thompson, the actor, former Tennessee senator and presidential hopeful with his much younger wife.

My friend Jack also prefers a much younger woman. He says it makes him feel younger. I think about dating a man in his late 20′s and people would wonder if I was his mother or worse, his gran. It might be terrible to admit but when I see a guy in his early 60s with a cute young thing I think to myself, “gramps.” I don’t see the attraction personally. Oh yes, I can see the physical attraction to a beautiful young woman, for sure, but after the sex is over, what else do they have in common? What’s the attraction on her part? Money? I want someone to enjoy my company and me enjoy his and for longer than a roll in the hay.

I think it tends to be creepy when you date someone close to or younger than your children. Stay away from creepy.

Perhaps I should admit that my husband is 6 years younger than me but that’s it.. that’s as low as I go!

If you haven’t seen the video of Skidboot, please take a few minutes to look at it now. It will cheer you up, inspire you and it will put a smile on your face a mile wide. It’s what love is all about. What a remarkable story.

In today’s Melbourne, Australia The Age newspaper is an article about a pastor and his wife who are having a sex seminar at their church. A flyer promising “the best sex you’ll ever have” has been sent to 25,000 households in a Melbourne suburb. The flyer’s headline is “The best sex you’ll ever have.”

The seminar is part of a 4 week series on sex, marriage, adultery and pornography.

The headline is only part of the shock to church goers. The graphic on the flyer is to the right. Now I don’t know about you but that sort of photo is something you’d see on a site like ours at SexyAds.com or some other site with Cosmo like content.

I think this is a fantastic idea. According to the paper, the pastor, Andrew Newbold, and his wife Megan posed for the photo.

I couldn’t agree more with the premise of the seminar. The Newbolds say sex is supposed to be fun, so why does it feel like everyone else is having all the fun? It’s not supposed to leave you feeling guilty, frustrated or empty.

“Lots of people have asked, ‘why would the church want to talk about sex in the first place?’ That’s a ridiculous question because everyone else is talking about it, and it’s something God created,” Mr Newbold says.

Newbold acknowledges that the current generation is exposed to more sexual information and activity than any other in history, mostly due to the availability of adult content on the internet.

This is way past due. I’m so bummed out when I see people say that sexuality shouldn’t be part of a dating site. I just want to scream that it IS about the sex. It shouldn’t be all about the sex but to ignore sexual compatibility is to doom the relationship.

I commend the Newbolds and wish them a lot of luck. They obviously have the pulse of their community because they’ve built their church from a membership of 16 to 350 in a short amount of time.